Sunday, May 4, 2014

Fetuses can see light, apparently


I got myself pretty psyched up for a lame weekend. My capstone project for my entire master's program is due tomorrow at midnight, which I've probably mentioned a million times this week. That's because writing a blog post, or cleaning the toilet, or organizing my apps on my phone, or things of that nature suddenly took precedence over actually, you know, just doing the damn project. The problem was that the bulk of the writing was essentially done, it was just honing and perfecting it left on my to do list, which I really hate.

My twitter was recently hacked. Or something. Every time I signed on, I was following an extra 100-150 new accounts that I'd never heard of, and often were not in English.



 
I dealt with this problem the usual way, by deleting the twitter app from my phone and all other devices, and hoping it went away, but no matter how many time I unfollowed all the weird crap, it kept coming back. Having a deadline for actual work looming gave me the motivation to finally deal with this tragic, terrible problem, and knock on wood it seems to be fixed. Which unfortunately meant I had to return to the task at hand.

I overcame this adversity and had a great weekend, and it's only noon on Sunday and my project is very, very close to being done.

On Friday, the weather was gorgeous and Eric suggested going for a walk after dinner. If you know him in person, you may realize this is shocking. He prefers manly, crossfit type exercise. At least that's how I understand it from him telling me about his workouts when he gets home, and clicking "mark as read" any time I see a blog post referencing crossfit. At any rate, lots of grunting and lifting heavy objects, or at the very least, some type of highly competitive ball game.

We went for a nice 45 minute-ish walk (didn't bring the Garmin, or even a watch or phone!) and it was just lovely. When we got home, the real fun started. We were laying down talking (because sitting up just requires too much effort, we had both been upright at work all day, enough is enough). Eric had his hand on my belly, which sounds really weird but I think/hope it's normal when there's a baby in there.

WE BOTH FELT THE BABY MOVE!

Like most first time expectant mothers, I'd been waiting/dreaming/imagining this for quite awhile now, and wondering if every single thing I felt was the baby, and frequently trying to feel it only to confuse my own heartbeat with baby movements. My doctor said it probably wouldn't happen until 20-24 weeks (19 now). This time, it was unmistakable, but we both jumped anyway and had a surreal "was that you?" conversation. Obviously this made no sense and there was only one thing it could possible be, but it was so strange and unlike anything I'd ever felt before that it was hard to believe even with hard evidence.

Friday night was a one and done. My sister recommended shining a flashlight at my belly, apparently the baby will see it and try to kick it. It worked for her, and I tried it Saturday night, and it (eventually) worked for me too! The first time (Friday night, when we both felt it) I was shocked and excited, but I felt a few kicks/whatevers on Saturday and got totally creeped out. That probably sounds horrible, but as wonderful as it is, it's freaking weird to have a human being moving inside your body, especially when you aren't used to it. I'll still be hoping to feel it again tonight, though!

While my weekend was mainly grad work, ensuring my ability to tweet wasn't compromised, and attempting to provoke my fetus, I did take a break from these activities to binge watch trash TV. Not just on my own, like I normally do, but as a planned event with my absolute, number 1 BFF in the entire world, John Williams. We kindly let his very pregnant wife and our other friend Casi join us. Our goal was to watch all of Marriage Bootcamp, season 1 (on Netflix, BTW). One of the DJs from the radio program that I'm obsessed with, and we were on last week, NBD, is on the show.

Sadly, we failed. There are ten hour long episodes, and even though we each watched the first episode prior to getting together, it was still too much. Casi's in marathon training, Carolyn and I are growing humans, and John has put together some baby stuff, leaving us all exhausted. Even fueling with Thai food and sundaes, we only made it through six episodes.

Are you a procrastinator like me?

What's the last show you binge watched? I guess if your answer to the first question is no, maybe this doesn't apply to you, but that's a life I know nothing about.




14 comments:

  1. I binge watched the first season of Vikings. I am so in love with that show and am so sad Season 2 is over. I hate waiting for another season.

    I used to love feeling the baby move, but it always weirded my husband out and he hated feeling it move. mad me a little sad.

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    1. Yeah, I could see how a man would get freaked out (Eric sure was!) - I guess you have a lifetime of the real thing after they are born!

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  2. Marriage boot camp is amazing!! I watched it all in one weekend. Who is the DJ?

    I'm still creeped out by movement and even more so now that I can feel specific body parts. So fun!

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    1. Danni! I love her so much. I'm glad I'm not the only one freaked out. It's clearly the miracle of life, but it feels like an alien is trying to climb out of my skin.

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  3. maybe you didn't hear of the "hearbleed" exploit, but there was recently a huge hole in the security of a bunch of major internet sites, Twitter being one of them. Definitely change your password NOW.

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    1. I did not, but I strongly suspected that crowd-sourcing it on my blog would result in someone much better at internet-ing than me would explain it to me.

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  4. Jeff and I have been binge watching "Sex Sent me to the ER" and it's hilarious.

    I never shone a light on my fetus. I felt like that was somehow mean, like I was fucking with it. DON'T GO INTO THE LIGHT and so forth. I always got my babies to move around by eating sugar (or drinking juice) so I stuck with that method.

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    1. I shined it at my hand first to test it, you can barely see it through, just a tiny bit, it's not like shining a light directly in someone's eyes to interrogate them. I get my fix of being mean to children every day when I take away their recess for not doing work, so I have no need to go above and beyond that.

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  5. My twitter was hacked in the exact same way about 3 days ago!! Have you found a way to fix it? I'm going to just delete my whole account and hope I can sign up again under the same name coz nothing else seems to work.
    Awesome news about feeling the baby move, although I'm pretty sure I would definitely freak out the first time if it was me!

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    1. Apparently some horrible virus is going around and we all need to change our passwords!

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  6. Heartbleed...did you hear about it? You definitely need to change your twitter password. And awesome about feeling the baby move! I can only imagine how weird that must be (even if it is great). I had no idea that babies could see light...do their eyes work at 19 weeks? Crazy. I learn something new every day.

    Good luck finishing your grad school project!

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    1. I am clearly too ZOMG busy to hear of such things. I thought I made that clear with my many important engagements and accomplishments listed in this post. :)

      My five minute google search on "19 week baby seeing" was inconclusive, so I just decided that since the flashlight trick worked, they can. It's science.

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  7. Baby moving--how thrilling! Very cool. I recently binge-watched the entire three seasons of Episodes, laughing hysterically the whole way through. Of course, being on Showtime, the seasons were pretty short, and I stretched it out over two or maybe even three days...

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  8. I attempted to finally binge watch S4 of GoT last night and alas, I made it through THE FIRST episode. Total failure. I tend to binge on New Girl too, but that's easy--- the episodes are only 21 minutes on Netflix!

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